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there is something not quite right about that 856....you have an earlier model fork than the 856 would have had....the washers you refer to are seals...might be still available from iron horse in a kit,RK005,see the stickies for Iron horse contact info.
Just had a great few days biking in the Lake District and popped into Bike Treks in Ambleside for old times' sake and it turns out they have a few old Proflex parts lying about - seals, bushes, derailleur hangers, a few odds and sods (half a carrier bag full he said). I asked if it was OK if I mentioned it here and they said fine, so that's what I'm doing. Give them a bell if you need small Proflex parts - you just never know they may have what you need.http://www.biketreks.net/
wow! a 856.12389721934723947 - I've never seen a photo of one before! It is a re-sprayed 855 and retrofitted with ODS shocks!