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A wet-bath telescoping fork will absorb small bumps as effectively as a Crosslink. I can't argue with the unique appearance though, it's definitely got that going for it. My parallelogram fork was a Girvin Vector, so it's possible my experience would've been different if I'd had a Crosslink instead. All I really remember at this point is, it used to tuck the front wheel under the frame when I'd hit a bump or tap the front brakes, which made my already uncomfortably forward-biased bike downright scary to ride downhill. I think the big issue is not so much the effect of the "J-path" while riding in a straight line, but when riding around a corner, because it causes the front wheel to shift away from the direction of movement, which changes the left-to-right balance of the bike in the middle of a turn. Scared the willies out of me many times. Telescoping forks, while less exciting in appearance, at least follow a path that's very easy for the rider's brain to learn and anticipate.As I said before, though, it's a great looking bike.
The seat looks way too high to me, but seats that are higher than the handlebars always look too high to me. I suppose it depends on the length of your legs more than anything else. . . . The fork you have probably isn't helping matters. Compared to a lot of forks nowadays, the Vector/Crosslink forks are pretty short and cause the bike to lean forward, and you along with it. That puts more of your weight on your hands. It may not look like it's leaning forward in your pictures, but the bike doesn't have your weight on it; when your weight is on it the springs will compress and the bike will lean forward noticeably. A newer fork will feel more plush, handle more consistently, and hold the front of the bike up higher too -- especially if you get a fork with an air spring, because then you can adjust it to have the perfect pressure so the bike doesn't lean forward or backward when you're sitting on it.